Light switch turned on….
When someone tells you that they are not good enough for you or that they don’t deserve you – believe them.
This is not the time to argue with the person or to try to bolster their self-esteem. Your ears should perk up and you should go on high alert.
This is a more serious problem than you might be inclined to think. There’s something behind a statement like this. Perhaps your partner has serious low self-esteem, or they know they are doing something deceitful or there’s something in their past that makes them feel unworthy of your love. Ultimately, you need to learn more. I recommend that instead of trying to bolster your partner up, take a moment and ask them “why” they feel that way. Inquire, and then listen well. Really listen.
Some people think that a statement like this is romantic or endearing. I believe that it’s actually a warning. Your partner is telling you that they are not good enough for a…
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